"ÊÔ»é" the word among young people has long been flattering. May have heard the recent news that way, some the feelings of lack of middle-aged husband and wife want to divorce, they worry that we will regret after divorce, separation was on the way to take a "test of divorce", so as to get along with each other as friends, housing distribution and Habitat, the eat all the rice, all the money spent, if we feel a certain period of time acceptable to the other side there is no day, and go for divorce.

institutions in the urban areas to work in a Miss Song is a typical "family divorce trial."

yesterday morning, reporters saw the 34-year-old Miss Song. Flowing hair, white skin, of aµ­×±, inter-emitting¾ÙÊÖͶ×ãMature charm, this is a great woman character. Miss Song's time to see the evaluation in mind.

some concerns to Miss Song told reporters: "In fact, over and over again until I was hesitant to find your courage and I love her husband has also been vigorous, but because I am pregnant of the derailment, he let me mind cast a shadow, I can not forgive him. We have a couple of relatively decent job, he bigger than I am 6 years old, before the feelings are very good, and later he and a temporary unit created a scandal, Let me very sad, more than two months pregnant at the time of the child to bear the pain so let me out, because I think he do not deserve children, I will give him. the combat is a great for me, although later he and the girls do not travel, but I can no longer trust him as it was before. I had a divorce, but he refused to live or die, but also let me give him a chance, and I was also worried that the divorce will regret it, because he told me was quite good. In these circumstances, we separated, and now has more than three months. At first he was not sitting next to me down I can not sleep at night will wake up several times and every time I think of betraying his heart on hate them. Slowly, the exchange between us less and less, I have got used to this kind of life, every day for a meal together, and few words. there are times he wants to move back to live, have been I refused to block, I can not feel his body to accept the. Moreover, he is not concerned about all the. and his indifference to the face of my approach is taken to avoid, Internet looking for sex chat complained. "

told reporters: "You do not feel this way, your marriage will eventually be really broken it? Why do not actively think of ways to solve the problem?"

"Oh, I do not want to more than words and his heart is hate, I feel that I have not begun to adapt to the existence of a date for his. before he and another woman also send text messages to call me angry, now I have not bother to reason and never mind that does not feeling uncomfortable, I think I might really do not love him, and do not care about him and with whom. sometimes he deliberately in front of me to other women made greetings SMS, can not even ask I do not have the desire, to see He was lost out. saying he was eager to personal space and freedom now, but that did not feel relaxed. I intend to get a divorce recently, the chicken should not matter whether the marriage ceremony. "Miss Song said sadly.

In this regard, the guidance of high-level marriage and family division, the state beautifulʦ²®two psychological counseling, said: "trial separation to divorce to a large extent reflects the mind of a person on the exclusion of the other people in the Sometimes when the injury is indeed a need for an independent space to heal wounds, but the separation will be for a long time a potential conflict and the husband and wife is not conducive to the exchange of feelings, because a lot of time to hug each other will also feel warmth, can be separated while the husband and wife would have thought more of each other's bad feeling with the passage of time because of a lack of will and lack of communication. If this happens to have a favorite time of the opposite sex appear on the inevitable emergence of affair. Therefore, the separation test is not a solution to the problem of divorce ways to pay really, more than standing on the other side's point of view the problem in order to gradually solve the problem. "