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Dr. Zhang : EQ experts EQ张怡筠club head, the United States Georgia Institute of Technology (Georgia Institute of Technology) Ph.D. in Psychology, a former university professor for 11 years, is active in media psychology expert, he was "Spiritual Garden" "psychological interviews" "deformation of dollars" and other guests at the program, a senior corporate trainer. not a long line of high school students to find me, and made a message to: and I married her husband of 11 years was having an affair, I am almost collapsed! the other half of the derailment, the women are unbearable. The bolt from the blue she felt most is that her husband has been known for super-honest, when he was picked on, "can never be bother to bring" the characteristics before deciding to marry him. she asked: "how could he have a situation? He will have to spend the first, who can I trust?" ah, it felt really hard. Generally speaking, men will split can be divided into two categories, the "dominant male split," every discharge, romantic by nature, basically, "bother to bring" the word on the written on the forehead, or even understand the oath: "I'm on this like! I am very dedicated to love? doors do not have children!" If this kind of hit man, a woman was to be prepared, it will not ever look forward to working with him. while the second "hidden split M", will be losing some people. He seems particularly honest, and even to speak and stammer a little bit nervous to go out from the opposite sex to see a little, but eventually, he split a master! I have read a lot of hidden split men, the vast majority are not handsome charm, and even some far from being handsome, talk about work and income, women can not let their eyes light up, but very strange, they allow the emergence of the total women are particularly comfortable. a more than 30-year-old engineer, is less than 1 meter 70, wearing a short-sightedness glasses, thinning hair, most women can not help a friend, he said the Federation of caring: "how's the matter? You look tired, very hard, right?" touched people in particular, the women dug out the heart and lungs to share feelings with him. So that a woman one after another before he became a friend and then he became her boyfriend unwittingly. split recessive why men can have such a skill? the opposite sex because he let it open for him, to think of it, this man does not look good conversation is not charming, when he was close to how a woman would not want to, it will around him. Then you will find him particularly concerned about the people, little by little, so that women become increasingly dependent on him, whether emotional or both and ultimately, his life, when you realize that often it is too late ... ... it under their own can not be separated from him already! hidden reason why such a split male characteristics is due to their special psychological state. First of all, some people are not too good because of all the conditions, others feel better, so would particularly like to be sure. He will be gallant female around, if the other party to accept and have a positive response would be for him extra points for the self-confidence, which would be customary to pay special attention to women. Second, many hidden split that they did not fault men. He knew not split, but not be able to stop their behavior, then it will help justify their own guilt! Precedent in the case of engineers who said: "I can not deliberately做啥, I just want to friendly for everyone, I do not understand is that the 'no' men, a woman complained she likes me for!" if the other half is split recessive male, the woman will be injured and not worth. At that time, with you, do not care about your appearance, you did not care about the money, I do not plan, that is your honest eyes, but also the most about this point, only to find, so honest actually can deceive you I ... ... the most about the places where they will get hurt the most, and therefore easily lost the trust of men (which men that are to be believed?) In addition, will substantially detract from a woman's self-confidence, "bad, even the conditions of men are so unable to grasp, I am too poor ability to see how the wind blows ... ..." not only to believe that his vision, it will actually feel the charm of women in such a miserable state, and even the "security men" are rebels! If the people around a hindrance than a help, one would be amazed to hear the news: "ah? As the men will be derailed ah?" It is really worse. so recessive lethal split后劲十足men, by his injury that a woman will feel tangled complex, often also need more time to heal, but as long as they can see the reasoning behind and more than a patient, after all, out of feelings of low haze.
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