the selection of one-night stand, mainly because many people are tired of dull marriage, a passionate desire in the hope that they will encounter a lot of the other "Little Red Flowers," the one-night stand and to find a reason and an excuse for the occasional derailment and there is no serious consequences. "But we occasionally a derailment in the psychological impact, it is possible let us psychological obstacles.

Lee, 29 years old, work norms, rules, the family a sense of weight, a strong sense of responsibility, can be called a "model husband." Not long ago, the night out with friends to play, perhaps the alcohol played a role, he fell away in a time when drinking, otherwise participated in the meal of the "program", do not do a thing. Since then, he fell asleep for three consecutive days without sleep, although with extreme feelings of self-reproach to his wife Frankly this matter, however, not only did not alleviate the psychological suffering, but also do not feel comfortable with the whole body, and suspected that she had contracted sexually transmitted diseases. To this end,ÐÄÉñ²»Äþall day, not only can not work, and his wife can not lead a normal sex life.

hole psychological counseling teacher explained that It Happened One Night by Lee and unexpected psychological barrier, leading to sexual problems. because he has the perfect mentality, a strong sense of morality, the reputation and moral view was crucial not to allow their offense a little bit wrong, and then exaggerated the consequences of this incident. coupled with the character too rigid, we have such a character, known as compulsive personality, such a character too passive, "one-night stand "In his ethics in life easier than other small committed more unforgivable mistake, resulting in the deviation of the psychological." Little Red Flowers, "the occasional derailment, making him a normal person could not even do.

so as a result of Mr. Lee as "one-night stand" and lead to psychological disorders are not uncommon things. Very often, people will be over-estimated their mental capacity,Éñ²»Öª¹í²»¾õthat the "balance transfers" and will not on the impact on their lives. did not think would be hidden psychological barriers sometimes life incident, like a bomb, a single waiting for you even if it is committed by a little bit to trigger a small error. derailed the whole day people were worried about light spouse will be found, and the matter of a spouse's infidelity as a permanent stain; weight persons such as Mr Lee will be general, not only in the psychological state of extreme self-blame in suffering, but also may lead to other serious consequences. Therefore, the teacher reminded the hole, setting aside the responsibility of the family to say the least, when people of "bother to bring this" ready to make trouble, they should first think of themselves can not afford the consequences may lead to derailment.