students will grow up more or less guilty of point errors, the focus should be fully aware of the children on the basis of the psychological boost to resolve conflicts with calm attitude to educate the children, to help children, their children safe, healthy, happy growth. Open conflicts major concern of students will affect the final exam review, I hope my father will understand Xiaoli school care and thought.

14-year-old claimed the first female Xiaoli, half a month ago, because the two doll cat, first from her school next to the flag of Taiwan by a female fan slapping, the next day were in the same school campus the number of girls slapping, beating girls also take the entire process using a mobile phone video, Xiaoli readme of this scene, now let's have a new version of the accident.

yesterday afternoon, Xiaoli located in Shenzhen Experimental secondary school who declined to be named The girls at this newspaper, said Xiaoli statement to reporters the contents of the real situation with great access. According to the girls, the Xiaoli at the same time with the two men have the Love inclined, one of which is in Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school Department Xiaohua (a pseudonym).´©°ïthings, the Shenzhen Experimental School in the Department of a junior high school girls angry. June 12 at noon, Xiaoli sports hall in the school after the girls were actually playing the same school, but the second round is to Xiaoli themselves, "she played the first round of that light, the effect of video shot by the lack of realistic . "In this regard, the father denied Xiaoli, Xiaoli When a reporter expressed the hope that I respond to these two issues, he of" not feeling well Xiaoli "refused.

Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school on the head of the Department Director Yang presented in coordinating an investigation to understand the general situation: the morning of June 10, secondary Xiaoli Department of two birthday gifts to the Department of the junior high school Xiao-Hua (alias) for him to turn to and Xiaohua two girls in the same school, after school pick Xiaohua gifts into the desks will be prepared to help school and then forwarded Xiaoli, did not expect to be sitting on the table after Xiaoying female classmate (a pseudonym) inadvertently see, and mistakenly believe that a gift is a gift Xiaoli's Xiaohua. Out of curiosity, Xiao-ying told the same school, the first of the other girls Xiao-Lan (a pseudonym), Xiao-Lan jealousy so germination. That the gift was to look after very annoyed Xiaohua, Xiaoying immediately and there have been some unpleasant bickering. "We have heard of Xiao-Hua Xiao-Lan are inclined to love, the school asked for this, but she did not recognize." Director Yang said. According to Xiao-hua, I introduced, that gift is a small twoÀöÍÐreferred him to this point in line with the above Xiaoli.

night before 8:00, the reporter Xiaoli see again, her face haggard tired, depressed state, from time to time with the eyes looking out the window at a loss. Character used to be a cheerful, lively and lovely girl, were students in the event of slapping incident, and her smile seems to cut off.

as a result of the incident involving the Department of the Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school and the Department of the Shenzhen Experimental School in the number of secondary school students, the morning of June 30, two school-related organizations is responsible for part of both parents and students concerned Junior High School Department conference room for as long as more than three hours of communication and coordination. Specific details of the incident, were arrested for assault and was among the hitters that certain differences still exist, for the protection of minors, the students point of view, the school is currently not yet released the results of the final disposition of the incident.

who understand my heart?

Xiaoli "This is not my heart really want to see the results"

father is an emotional excitement of the people easier , bad temper and some from an early age to my very strict discipline. The first day in junior high school next to the Department of the Taiwan flag outside the school girls were slapped, I have a good cry, but in the end, or hold back and worry about grandparents looked after the home will be distressed. Subsequently, I have considered not to tell Mom and Dad, but I am afraid that my father would be listening to the alarm,Ô½ÄÖÔ½things, and that he is a person who can draw on.

to the newspaper to tell you things through before she had a father with a number of communication, I was only in the way to know. Things hit the papers, I am more worried than before, and worried about the other side will come to see me after the trouble, worry about the students because of this incident behind me talk, do not worry about a good friend told me to play the ... ... things to this point, In fact, this is not my heart really want to see the results, I hope to be able to chat in a form of peaceful solution. But the father and it would not be good for me, so I do not blame him.

last night, I sat alone in the room would like the issue desk, feeling very complicated, and even once thought of jumping off a building. A few days ago, at the end of the examination results did not come out, but I certainly know that they test well, the students were playing, I thought there was no review, the examination was a blank head, how long the shadow of this event from to get out? I do not know, today is the first halo.

Xiaoli Dad: Some violent words and deeds, but they are good for daughters

"I admit that in this matter I may be some radical words and deeds , but I are good to her daughter. "Mr. Jiang Xiao-Li's father, frankly, looking for this newspaper, he is already aware of the matter upon media reports, the contradictions will be like a snowball, snowball. However, in his view, his own to do so is "half a month to happen, the school has not made an explanation. I am very annoyed!" When a reporter asked about the contradictions in how to help her daughter after the publication of the psychological fear of going out when Mr. Jiang said, "My daughter is very strong, I believe she will be able to quickly get out of this to matter, because no matter what happens, I will help her in her back, supporting her."

the school: students worried about the impact of public review contradiction

"in order to protect these children do not hurt, in which did not get to the bottom, we feel that parents should be with the school, from which the incident sum up experience, will focus on understanding how to guide and correct the wrong child, the child safety, health, happiness and growth of schools and the common wish of the parents. "Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school and higher secondary units, the Shenzhen Experimental School of Education Group¹ùÖ÷ÈÎrelevant person in charge said that, after the event, school leadership has been closely watched because the parents the day before the two sides open to organizations ACC is mainly concerned about the contradictions in public will affect the students review the final exam, I hope my father will understand Xiaoli schools care and thought.

The official also said that the students will grow up more or less committed mistake, "Student Management Ordinance" will be wrong for them to make some constraints, but the focus should be on full understand the psychological basis for children up to resolve conflicts with calm attitude to educate children, help children return to calm as soon as possible to learn them.

Although Xiaoli Xiao-ying and the details of two events presented by the existence of differences, but in order to pressure the students concerned this arrogance, the day before 17 o'clock, middle school head arrangement of three girls on the concerned June 10, 11 things to the face-to-face apology Xiaoli, Xiaoli have accepted their apology.

doubt 1

Department of junior high school there in the end Xiaoying Xiaoli beat?

coordination meeting, the Department of the Shenzhen Experimental School Director Yang junior high school, the afternoon of June 10 after school, Xiao-Ying, Xiao-Lan and the other girls in the same school, came to Shenzhen Experimental School Secondary Section , and Xiaoli had a conversation, the two sides broke up. The afternoon the next day after school, call around Xiaoli Xiaoying Experimental School in Shenzhen, the Department of the flag of Taiwan junior high school meet, Xiao-Li arrived at the scene, the two sides in the push-pull process, Xiaoying face with your fingers gently in Xiaoli slipped, not Xiaoli said the face of the fan.

Xiao-ying said that although the morning was on the 10th curse roundly Xiaohua felt after a񋀁, after school and Xiao-Lan, Chen Department of girls to secondary schools and Xiaoli talked, but that is not pre - collusion good conversation between the two sides in the process of radical and there is no language, "we do not talk about after the end of the next day to meet her a cup of tea, but did not flag in our school next to fan her face and Taiwan."

doubt 2

Xiaoli why the number was the same school girls slapping?

6 on On the morning of 30 secondary schools in Shenzhen Experimental School in the Department of suspicion of beating the students and parents did not participate in ACC. School Department Director Yang of the responsible person will be aware of the situation described at the meeting: June 12 at noon, the school security inspection process in schools and found that there are 67 sports hall behind the girls said, laughing, at the same time with slapping unusual move. The security situation immediately back to school leadership, teachers rushed to the market, the beating of students have left. Aware of the gravity of the matter, the school year convene an urgent meeting of the General Assembly to take part in the beatings of students speak out the truth then.

"It is understood that because the junior high school, then the Department was released, saying that as long as the six girls school I played a few Xiaoli face, and photographed using a mobile phone video as evidence, they and the contradiction between Xiaoli can be resolved. "Secondary Section Director Yang said that, after all, is the same school, students receive a" mission "after the six girls not bear to start, but in order to" call it a day ", the last symbolic pat in the face several Xiaoli Next, there is no real war, after the video has been shot by the students concerned the destruction of their own, there is no rumor.

doubt 3

behind people?

people behind this who is in the end? The day before yesterday afternoon, call the School Department's participation in this event, which hit the two girls, but they are "not convenient right now," he declined an interview. Junior High School Ministry Director Yang of the responsible person to respond to that because the matter involved two schools, in the end who is behind the Ministry of students instead of junior high school, the school needs to be done further investigation.

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for the incident, has been focused on the research station minors psychology expert Stephen Wang Jiyong psychological center that with the growth of young people age, changes in social conditions as well as television and the media on the Love, love more and more aspects of the minor students have a favorable impression of the opposite sex and love of the common occurrences. According to incomplete statistics, about 80% of the city's students are minors and the existence of close contacts of cases the opposite sex, a little attention will note that many of the students dressed in school uniforms in public places under the hands, embracing, with 15-year-old to 17-year-old students in this age group most.

Shenzhen city parents work pressure, most parents usually only concerned about the school children to the neglect of the emotional aspects of children's concern, in fact, adolescent students in need of parents in the psychological and emotional needs and warmth to give some guidance. Xiaoli beaten from this event, the contradiction is most likely the fuse that two doll cat, and the reasons for conflict is most likely because of the Xiao-Hua Xiao-Lan had a good impression, she do not want to have other women Xiaohua gallant child. The event someone wants to occupy their territory, germination will be jealous of her heart, and then try to stop. Heterosexual adolescent students have a desire to obscure this fact quite normal, after all, with the love not the same as adults, students are more curious. If you do not get the fuse, usually they will not be this attitude is evident that the vast majority of parents and teachers disagree.

in this incident, Xiaoli be mistaken as the target, because after being beaten and the school did not dare tell their parents because of her lack of a sense of security inside. After parents learn about, first of all, should be the mentality of a peaceful face to face with her daughter, let her daughter open their hearts, talk about the feelings of the heart, give her a peace and security. Rather than to obtain justice through the form of media will further intensify contradictions. "Since the incident has developed into this, then the parent and the school should attach great importance to the psychological needs of Xiaoli." WANG Ji-yong said that it is necessary for parents to do some psychological counseling Xiaoli, Xiaoli to provide sufficient psychological energy to face this matter, and the schools will be necessary to come forward so that students do not discuss the matter between, if discussions should be guided to the students.

students will grow up more or less guilty of point errors, the focus should be fully aware of the children on the basis of the psychological boost resolve conflicts with calm attitude to educate children, help children and their children safe, healthy, happy growth. Open conflicts major concern of students will affect the final exam review, I hope my father will understand Xiaoli school care and thought.

14-year-old claimed the first female Xiaoli, half a month ago, because the two doll cat, first from her school next to the flag of Taiwan by a female fan slapping, the next day were in the same school campus the number of girls slapping, beating girls also take the entire process using a mobile phone video, Xiaoli readme of this scene, now let's have a new version of the accident.

yesterday afternoon, Xiaoli located in Shenzhen Experimental secondary school who declined to be named The girls at this newspaper, said Xiaoli statement to reporters the contents of the real situation with great access. According to the girls, the Xiaoli at the same time with the two men have the Love inclined, one of which is in Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school Department Xiaohua (a pseudonym).´©°ïthings, the Shenzhen Experimental School in the Department of a junior high school girls angry. June 12 at noon, Xiaoli sports hall in the school after the girls were actually playing the same school, but the second round is to Xiaoli themselves, "she played the first round of that light, the effect of video shot by the lack of realistic . "In this regard, the father denied Xiaoli, Xiaoli When a reporter expressed the hope that I respond to these two issues, he of" not feeling well Xiaoli "refused.

Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school on the head of the Department Director Yang presented in coordinating an investigation to understand the general situation: the morning of June 10, secondary Xiaoli Department of two birthday gifts to the Department of the junior high school Xiao-Hua (alias) for him to turn to and Xiaohua two girls in the same school, after school pick Xiaohua gifts into the desks will be prepared to help school and then forwarded Xiaoli, did not expect to be sitting on the table after Xiaoying female classmate (a pseudonym) inadvertently see, and mistakenly believe that a gift is a gift Xiaoli's Xiaohua. Out of curiosity, Xiao-ying told the same school, the first of the other girls Xiao-Lan (a pseudonym), Xiao-Lan jealousy so germination. That the gift was to look after very annoyed Xiaohua, Xiaoying immediately and there have been some unpleasant bickering. "We have heard of Xiao-Hua Xiao-Lan are inclined to love, the school asked for this, but she did not recognize." Director Yang said. According to Xiao-hua, I introduced, that gift is a small twoÀöÍÐreferred him to this point in line with the above Xiaoli.

night before 8:00, the reporter Xiaoli see again, her face haggard tired, depressed state, from time to time with the eyes looking out the window at a loss. Character used to be a cheerful, lively and lovely girl, were students in the event of slapping incident, and her smile seems to cut off.

as a result of the incident involving the Department of the Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school and the Department of the Shenzhen Experimental School in the number of secondary school students, the morning of June 30, two school-related organizations is responsible for part of both parents and students concerned Junior High School Department conference room for as long as more than three hours of communication and coordination. Specific details of the incident, were arrested for assault and was among the hitters that certain differences still exist, for the protection of minors, the students point of view, the school is currently not yet released the results of the final disposition of the incident.

who understand my heart?

Xiaoli "This is not my heart really want to see the results"

father is an emotional excitement of the people easier , bad temper and some from an early age to my very strict discipline. The first day in junior high school next to the Department of the Taiwan flag outside the school girls were slapped, I have a good cry, but in the end, or hold back and worry about grandparents looked after the home will be distressed. Subsequently, I have considered not to tell Mom and Dad, but I am afraid that my father would be listening to the alarm,Ô½ÄÖÔ½things, and that he is a person who can draw on.

to the newspaper to tell you things through before she had a father with a number of communication, I was only in the way to know. Things hit the papers, I am more worried than before, and worried about the other side will come to see me after the trouble, worry about the students because of this incident behind me talk, do not worry about a good friend told me to play the ... ... things to this point, In fact, this is not my heart really want to see the results, I hope to be able to chat in a form of peaceful solution. But the father and it would not be good for me, so I do not blame him.

last night, I sat alone in the room would like the issue desk, feeling very complicated, and even once thought of jumping off a building. A few days ago, at the end of the examination results did not come out, but I certainly know that they test well, the students were playing, I thought there was no review, the examination was a blank head, how long the shadow of this event from to get out? I do not know, today is the first halo.

Xiaoli Dad: Some violent words and deeds, but they are good for daughters

"I admit that in this matter I may be some radical words and deeds , but I are good to her daughter. "Mr. Jiang Xiao-Li's father, frankly, looking for this newspaper, he is already aware of the matter upon media reports, the contradictions will be like a snowball, snowball. However, in his view, his own to do so is "half a month to happen, the school has not made an explanation. I am very annoyed!" When a reporter asked about the contradictions in how to help her daughter after the publication of the psychological fear of going out when Mr. Jiang said, "My daughter is very strong, I believe she will be able to quickly get out of this to matter, because no matter what happens, I will help her in her back, supporting her."

the school: students worried about the impact of public review contradiction

"in order to protect these children do not hurt, in which did not get to the bottom, we feel that parents should be with the school, from which the incident sum up experience, will focus on understanding how to guide and correct the wrong child, the child safety, health, happiness and growth of schools and the common wish of the parents. "Shenzhen Experimental School in junior high school and higher secondary units, the Shenzhen Experimental School of Education Group¹ùÖ÷ÈÎrelevant person in charge said that, after the event, school leadership has been closely watched because the parents the day before the two sides open to organizations ACC is mainly concerned about the contradictions in public will affect the students review the final exam, I hope my father will understand Xiaoli schools care and thought.

The official also said that the students will grow up more or less committed mistake, "Student Management Ordinance" will be wrong for them to make some constraints, but the focus should be on full understand the psychological basis for children up to resolve conflicts with calm attitude to educate children, help children return to calm as soon as possible to learn them.

Although Xiaoli Xiao-ying and the details of two events presented by the existence of differences, but in order to pressure the students concerned this arrogance, the day before 17 o'clock, middle school head arrangement of three girls on the concerned June 10, 11 things to the face-to-face apology Xiaoli, Xiaoli have accepted their apology.