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Statistics show that 21.6% of step families children who have more severe emotional problems, 18.9% of the children the spirit of tension, there are 56.8% of children have a stronger psychological suppression, these data were higher than similar indicators for other types the number of families percentage. Therefore, the remarriage of the child of the family mental health problems is an important issue that can not be ignored. Divorced parents, so that these children have experienced an ordeal, and remarried parents so that they face more complex environment. The long run, it is difficult to be a child's normal physical and mental development. divorced families of young people vulnerable to psychological crisis, mainly related to the divorce of their parents before the worst of the family atmosphere, parents tension of conflicts caused by interpersonal relationships, as well as the divorce of their parents after the parents of the other party arising from separation anxiety, sadness, well-being of families of past memories and so on. In addition, adolescent mental divorced families, will also feel humiliated in front of friends and family, low self-esteem, helplessness and other relevant. Amin after the divorce of their parents, should be considered the father of Amin, after divorce how to allow Amin to continue to feel the love from his father? How to deal with just the son of a variety of adult psychological problems, and efforts to adjust himself and his son's communication. In addition, after the establishment of a new family, Amin's mother in the family should do a good job in lubricants, as soon as possible and stepfather Amin happy to accept each other. Therefore, Amin's parents after divorce, or should be strengthened communication with their children, and create a relaxed learning and living environment, as far as possible to meet him in spirit, led him to reduce the psychological burden, but also to do volume to his paternal and maternal complete. In addition, family coherence and consistency, in the remarried family is especially important, Amin's mother and stepfather do not have to give him the love of compensation or special for his connivance, or also easily lead to his emotional abnormalities.
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