Pressure as a result of the work, best friend and not in the side, Xiaowen not happy with what their hearts are fitted to. A chance, her colleagues said to recommend a very moving film. Weekend, Xiao-wen locked himself in a home watching the film, the feelings of men and women full of pathos hero cryingæ·…æ²¥she's Raining. Cried after she found a lot in a good mood, all of a sudden reduced pressure. Thus, Xiaowen introduce this approach to colleagues around, we tried several times after a lot of feel comfortable. Now, Xiao-wen and her colleagues a week to find a fixed "to make people cry," the movies, a few people, after reading the exchange between the re-.

the past, we have heard of "fans"; Not long ago, and if they know that the "eating the old family"; and recently, some white-collar workers in Beijing, the like Xiaowen such as "weekend howler ethnic "groups also surfaced. They may seem self-abusive way, through the works of literature, art and empathy to "howler" in order to resolve the psychological pressure. It is understood that such a decompression mode first appeared in Japan, white-collar workers are moving to buy the film on DVD or books, at home in tears while watching has become a fashion, it also makes the "tear film", "cry the novel "sentimental, as represented by popular culture in Japan.

narcissistic complex trigger tears

cry has always been seen as a way of decompression. But whether such a regular howler good, but also reflects what modern psychological problem? First of all, crying is a human emotional instability, mental weakness. It is true that it can temporarily ease the pressure, but if things continue this way, psychological problems can hardly be resolved. It's like a nerve obsessive-compulsive disorder patients, always wash your hands constantly repeated, but the process of hand-washing can only temporarily ease his anxiety. In fact, this is not a healthy way to vent, will continue to increase his suffering. As a means to vent, cry feel bored emptiness, depression, pain, is not conducive to people's psychological health.

Secondly, locked up with their own ways bitterly decompression, to a large extent is due to the lack of a result of friendship and love. Most of these people are single, do not talk too much for the friend. Thus, only through their own films and books moved through the howler to replace family, friendship, love, care, to self-comfort, which is under the weight of the upset.

Finally, always will be induced howler's narcissistic complex, long-term down, will feel even more lonely. Crying is a human activity, and when the people themselves as an object to appreciate the play, their main or initiative will be gradually weakened, will weaken the self-function, thus forming自æ