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Left-behind Children in Rural is a special group, because their parents go out to work all the year round, they are not entitled to parental care, generally poor academic performance. Recently, the reporter went to Yongdeng, Gaolan several counties remain focused on school children were interviewed, found that because of lack of affection, many children remain in rural areas is becoming a "problem child." generally poor learning "remain generally poor academic performance of children." This is an interview with a lot of teachers in the common view. Gaolan County did a survey of children throughout the county in 2128 remain, of which only about 120 children to learn well, less than the rest of the study. Rural primary schools in each class, students learn from poor parents who are basically long-term migrant workers, and supervision of children who remain widespread literacy is not high, the lack of scientific education and so on, plus the rural labor intensity, and the children learning helpless, let matters drift. Therefore, the Left-behind Children in poor academic performance, some weariness, truancy and even premature flow of the community. "parents at home, good academic performance. Parents home, the results fell on a straight line."川镇Yongdeng County Central Primary School teacher said Zhang. "Parents of the children to work long-term is the most difficult management, learning is the most we headache , and who did not do well to reflect the parents, the parents can not control, the reflected to the grandparents, and grandparents管不了and teachers if the tube were too strict, the children do not listen, so these poor children's academic performance in general. "teachers told reporters:" The operation of these children, family counseling in a blank state basically. "why not? Teachers think it is mainly a weak sense of family education. Busy parents to make money out of long-term, not the time nor the energy to say in their children's learning, children are grandparents custody because of their age, culture, health and energy reasons, concerned about their children's education so that children can be limited to long large, not a security accident of some kind, that the children on the tube, and the other of these elderly in terms of not important. parents eager to love "teachers can not substitute for parents." During the interview, the teachers said with concern: "The body and mind are in a period of rapid development in terms of primary and secondary school students in learning, life and change their own have too many problems to solve the needs of parents, and families can not give children the spirit of full support and knowledge to help, so do not benefit children's health growth. "reporter in the interview that there are many family ties remain very keen to children and parents love. Fu Fu Rural Water Village Water daughter Geng Wenbing耿美玲, long-term hosting to their aunt to care for parents to send 200 yuan per month living expenses.耿美玲wrote in the essay: "I have a desire, a little desire, only a day to be a warm embrace of my mother, I asked the stars twinkling in the night sky, you can tell me?" This shows that children's how the desire for affection. Many children and even parents to want to go out to work instead of at home, or could in the parents. a lot of psychological problems "physical and mental health, children stay out of the first acts of the performance of the unconstrained problem." Remain engaged in the education of children The teacher said Yang. From the survey, children with behavioral problems stay than other students in the schools do not comply with the discipline, to lie, a clique, bullying classmates, petty theft, smoking, drinking, do not listen to the guardian at home, then do not listen to teachers in schools words, business as usual. followed by the family is missing, more serious psychological problems. Parents a long time to go out, do not understand the changes in the growth of children, family child care can not be given, resulting in a lack of normal children and care guide, parents can not understand their thinking, psychological changes, and even some children of parents psychological resentment, combined with left Most of the supervision of children by grandparents, the age gap between the poor, and children in emotional, thinking there is a large communication barrier, resulting in child psychology behind depression, eccentric character, negative pessimistic, impulsive irritability and other psychological problems, the formation of their personality, world view have a tremendous impact on the formation. Yang says that the ideal life variation is the existence of physical and mental health of children remain a prominent issue. Parents of children as a result of long-term stay to work on children less concerned about ethics and moral education, in particular, some parents go to work because of long-term, can not take care of their children because of guilt arising from the psychological, so take "material + laissez-faire" approach to compensation, making rear pocket money that children have an increase in the number of degrees of freedom to increase the use of, children vulnerable to the formation of utilitarianism and hedonism values of life, develop despise labor, extravagance and waste, spend,摆阔气of bad habits, and a direct result of " reading useless, "" money worship "and the rise of erroneous ideas, some students began to develop the direction of life to make money as a wage. easy-to-dye bad habits reporter has learned that their parents can not afford as a result of management, the management of guardians for various reasons, failed to keep the rear part of the child due to lack of timely bound effective discipline, decency and propriety that the lack of violent discipline faced, often late, absenteeism, truancy, lying, fighting, bullying, student behavior, and even with the social habits of some people who have an adverse mix and become "problem children." At the same time, the majority because their own guardian and a variety of reasons, often only concerned about having enough children dress warmly were the fundamental rule of law, security and other serious lack of education, which left children drowning, electric shock and other safety incidents occur from time to time, assault and other violations of discipline also on the rise. did not give too much attention to "Left-behind Children in this special group of often easily overlooked groups." Wang, a school teacher pointed to the told reporters: "individual schools and teacher education focus only on the rate and good students, good students in learning more attention given, and a number of poor academic performance, discipline and staying poor little children and even has done absolutely nothing to interfere." She also said These children's parents often do not have parents at the school, the guardian or parents to schools, teachers and a number of departments that they do not violate the law and discipline of children left, you do not need too much attention, often the most vocal, but most likely be ignored. Wang called for, care for children left to the normal season, in their care grow up to be.
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